somewherelands

2,379 words into my first mental fluff post since the lockdown, and I realized that perhaps the world right now could be a little better off without listening to me rant at 3am in the morning.

The lockdown hasn’t been kind to us all, no matter where we’re from; and whether we’ve been sitting around cataloging new hobbies, committing to new workouts, taking part in social media challenges – or working without a moment’s space to breathe – I think it is safe to say that this hasn’t been the most inspiring time for most- not by a long shot.

I decided a long-winded whine isn’t exactly something that would alleviate the situation right now – in fact, it isn’t something that would alleviate my own mood right now. And besides, I’d rather make a mental postcard of all the places I want to be.

It’s so counter-intuitive to everything that’s been going on; but I’ve always idealized the notion of getting lost in somewhere crowded. To be completely and wholly swallowed up by the absolute madness that is Times Square on New Year’s Eve – despite my blanket hatred for anything that claustrophobizes me.

The feeling of anonymity. To be surrounded by thousands, if not millions; with not a single soul who knows your name.

To share a second of connection with the stranger next to you without having to know who they are, or where they come from.

To fleetingly know someone without having to know their reality, and without them having to know yours.

The bustling markets of Morocco.
London on Christmas Eve.
The riotous charm of a Caribbean city life.

Anonymity in a throng of millions is solitude romanticized to its finest form. Which is why I, too, love the feeling of being anonymous in a city I’ve never been before.

I, too, love the feeling of being lost, without the need of having to be found.

Where would you like to be lost in, and why?

Comments

  • Amber Myers

    Yes, being lost is amazing at times. Sometimes I just want to be alone!

    • shaf.finah

      Totally feel you! It’s amazing to not be noticed even though there are literally hundreds of people around! 😅

  • Mimi

    That’s a feeling I crave too, I’d like to get lost around my home town, I miss it so much

    • shaf.finah

      Truly no place like home.. hope you manage to make a visit some day soon after all this is over! ❤️💐

  • Kimberly K Croisant

    I might just feel this way if I ever get to Quebec City, Canada. I won’t know a sole – but it’s kind of exciting.

    • shaf.finah

      Oh Quebec City’s an interesting pick! Are you headed there soon? ❤️

  • Patricia @ Grab a Plate

    I had planned to visit Barcelona this summer, but… I imagine it’ll be fab once I am able to get there 🙂

    • shaf.finah

      Definitely! Keep keeping your eyes on those seas and sun! 🌴

  • Tisha

    Being lost in somewhere unfamiliar definitely would give you this sense of adrenaline. I’ve always wanted to visit Athens I just love the history.

    • shaf.finah

      Oh that’s definitely a good pick! I hope you’ll make it happen! ✨

  • Bella

    I love going to unpopular places, Its so lovely gettign lost and enjoying the time.

    • shaf.finah

      Definitely one of the most calming and understated feelings in the world. 💛

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